It’s a lie that Zhang Lei and Su Qing have been married for five years and have never had a quarrel. Once, due to the issue of decoration style, the two had a fierce argument. Su Qing was so angry that she hid in the bedroom, while Zhang Lei sat in the living room smoking. The air was filled with an awkward silence.
It was unknown how much time had passed. Zhang Lei gently pushed open the bedroom door and saw Su Qing secretly wiping away tears while looking at the decoration pictures on her phone. He walked over and didn’t say “sorry”. Instead, he gently hugged her from behind and said, “Actually, the light color you chose, I also think it looks quite nice.” Su Qing’s shoulders paused for a moment. She turned around and lay in his arms, her voice tinged with tears as she said, “I just think the home should be a bit warmer.” ”
That night, they went through the renovation manual together again, discussing the details one after another. The previous quarrel had long since vanished. There is no couple who never quarrels. What matters is that after the quarrel, someone is willing to give in first and someone is willing to offer a way out. A warm embrace is more effective in resolving conflicts than a thousand words of apology. After all, it’s not easy to come together. Compared with arguing about right and wrong, what we should cherish more are the people around us.