Moderate sharing of vulnerability brings people closer: Don’t always pretend to be perfect; authenticity is more endearing

When many boys pursue girls, they always want to show their “strong” side, such as “I can handle everything” or “I’ve never encountered any difficulties”, but they don’t know that moderately sharing their “little vulnerabilities” can actually bring them closer. An overly perfect image can make people feel distant, while occasional vulnerability can make you…

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Win favor by respecting boundaries: Don’t let initiative turn into offense

When pursuing a girl, many boys mistakenly believe that “the more proactive, the better”, but they overlook “respecting boundaries” – for instance, frequently sending messages, giving gifts without consent, and inquiring about privacy. These behaviors will make her feel offended and she will keep away from you instead. In fact, respecting her boundaries is the…

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