How can we prevent quarrels from leaving hidden dangers in long-term relationships and become closer the more we review them
In long-term relationships, arguments are inevitable. However, if after each argument, there is only a cold war or a perfunctory apology, the conflicts will keep accumulating and gradually wear down the feelings. The “conflict review” process, through the steps of “sorting out problems after calming down, expressing feelings candidly, and jointly formulating solutions”, transforms quarrels…